“We need to work on our brand.”
It’s something I hear all the time.
Usually what follows is a conversation about logos, colors, fonts, websites, social media, or maybe a fresh new tagline.
Those things matter.
But they’re not your brand.
In fact, you can have a beautiful logo, a polished website, and a social media presence that would make your competitors jealous… and still have a weak brand.
So what is a brand?
And how do you know if you have one?
Let’s start with what a brand isn’t.
A brand isn’t your logo.
It isn’t your product.
It isn’t your business card.
It isn’t your signage.
Those are all things that help represent your brand. But they aren’t the brand itself.
What is a brand?
One of my favorite definitions comes from Marty Neumeier, author of The Brand Gap:
“A brand is a person’s gut feeling about a product, service, or organization.”
A person’s gut feeling.
I love that definition because it reminds us of something important:
Your brand doesn’t live in your business.
It lives in the minds of your customers.
Think about that for a second.
You don’t get to decide what your brand is.
Your customers do.
Every interaction they have with you contributes to how they feel about your business. Over time, those experiences add up to a perception. And that perception becomes your brand.
Why should you care?
Because your brand influences almost every decision your customers make.
It’s why someone chooses you over a competitor.
It’s why customers recommend you to their friends.
It’s why people open your emails, trust your advice, and keep coming back.
And here’s the thing:
Most people don’t make decisions based on facts alone.
They make decisions based on how something makes them feel.
Your brand helps create that feeling.
The role personality plays
One of the fastest ways people develop a gut feeling about your business is through personality.
Think about the businesses you enjoy interacting with.
Some feel friendly.
Some feel innovative.
Some feel dependable.
Some feel premium.
Some feel fun.
None of those feelings happen by accident.
They’re created through the way those businesses communicate, solve problems, treat customers, and show up consistently over time.
This is where many small businesses have an advantage.
You don’t need a massive marketing budget to have a memorable personality.
You just need to be consistently yourself.
The way you write emails.
The stories you tell.
The way you answer customer questions.
The values you stand for.
The experience you create.
Those things shape how people feel about your business.
And that’s branding.
A simple example
Think about a local coffee shop you love.
Chances are you’re not recommending it because they have the cheapest coffee in town.
You’re recommending it because of how the place makes you feel.
Maybe it’s welcoming.
Maybe it’s quirky.
Maybe the owner remembers your name.
Maybe it feels like part of the community.
That feeling is the brand.
The coffee matters.
But the feeling is what people remember.
So how do you discover your brand?
Here’s the mistake many businesses make:
They try to invent one.
Strong brands are rarely invented from scratch.
They’re usually discovered and amplified.
The best place to start is with the people who already love what you do.
Ask a few of your best customers these three questions:
- Why did you choose us?
- What do we do better than others?
- How would you describe us to a friend?
Pay close attention to the words they use.
If multiple people describe you as helpful, that’s a clue.
If they say you’re reliable, that’s a clue.
If they say you’re creative, responsive, caring, approachable, or knowledgeable, those are clues too.
Your brand often shows up in what customers say about you long before it shows up in what you say about yourself.
The goal isn’t to manufacture an image.
The goal is to identify what people already value about you and lean into it consistently.
Your next step
This week, reach out to three customers, supporters, or fans.
Ask them those three questions.
Then write down the words and phrases that come up repeatedly.
You might be surprised by what you discover.
Because your brand isn’t hiding in your logo.
It’s hiding in the way people talk about you when you’re not in the room.
Hey Dave—
Great post!
I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately, wanting to get my fans input in how they see me. I am unsure how to ask them though—do you have any suggestions? I don’t know what kind of simple questions I can ask without them getting turned off.
Thanks, Dave!
-Alli (@AllisonBrattArt)
This brand thing is killing me. So is my site. I just want to travel then maybe write about it. Didnt know i had to go through all these things just to get a PR 2 on my page…… *rant over*
Great article! 🙂